My name is Bianca Ocean Maria Desmore, professionally known as Ocean~Spirithealer, and explaining what I do has never fit neatly into one little box. I am an author, transformational speaker, researcher, musician, songwriter, entrepreneur, and longtime life coach. Before all of that, I spent nearly three decades as an optician. I have worked in insurance, owned an entertainment company for more than a decade, produced live events and creative projects, written books and thousands of songs, and earned a Master’s degree in Innovation and Entrepreneurship.
On paper, that probably looks like I couldn't make up my mind. In reality, I have spent most of my life doing the same thing in different environments: watching people, recognizing patterns, solving problems, creating, and asking why.
That habit eventually became The Chain Creation Theory™.
For years, I noticed something about the way we discuss human behavior. We separate everything. Anxiety is over here. ADHD is over there. Perfectionism gets another explanation. People-pleasing, chronic overwhelm, fear, depression, isolation, overthinking, and lack of purpose each get their own little corner. The more I observed these patterns, the less convinced I became that they were always separate.
I began exploring the possibility that some of what we experience as individual problems may actually be connected survival adaptations. If the nervous system spends enough time responding to stress, those responses can become familiar. Familiar responses become repeated behaviors, repeated behaviors influence other behaviors, and eventually we may start describing the result as simply who we are. That became the foundation of The Chain Creation Theory™.
My research has continued to evolve from there. I am exploring the possibility that chronic survival patterns can begin during childhood and potentially even before birth through prolonged maternal stress. I am particularly interested in what happens when a nervous system becomes so accustomed to survival that survival no longer requires an obvious emergency.
Of course, figuring out why something happens wasn't enough for me. I wanted to know what we could do with the information. That led to Safe Freedom™, my framework for introducing change through small, manageable experiences that allow the brain and nervous system to collect new evidence without making freedom itself feel threatening. Then music wandered into the research because apparently I didn't have enough rabbit holes already.
I have played piano and guitar for decades, written more than 2,000 songs, received recognition for my songwriting, and spent ten years running an entertainment company. While experimenting with sound, I noticed something that made me curious about the relationship between frequency and musical key. I began combining Solfeggio frequencies with corresponding musical keys and observing the experience. That work became Desmore Frequency™, my developing hypothesis that frequency and musical key used together may assist the nervous system during restoration.
I don't claim that every question I ask already has an answer. Research would be pretty pointless if we were only allowed to investigate things we already knew. I document what I observe, compare patterns, test ideas, revise them when the information changes, and keep asking questions.
That is probably the simplest explanation of who I am. I notice things. I connect things that don't initially appear connected. Then I keep digging until I understand why I noticed them in the first place.
Today, I bring that work together through writing, research, speaking, workshops, music, and The Chain Creation Theory™. My goal isn't to tell people what they should think about themselves. I want to give them another possibility to consider: some of the things they have spent years trying to fight may make a lot more sense once they understand what their nervous system learned while they were surviving.
