THE TRUTH THEY NEVER WANTED US TO KNOW
What if everything we know about humanity, patriarchy, and the roles of men and women is incomplete? Exploring human origins, generational trauma, and Equiarchy as a new model for society.
OUTLANDISH THEORIESSOCIETY & CULTUREPERSONAL STORIES
Bianca (Ocean) Maria Desmore
10/15/20267 min read


THE TRUTH THEY NEVER WANTED US TO KNOW
Men have always known they are evil and dysfunctional, and I can prove it. For decades, I have been collecting information to figure out why so many of us struggle with mental issues. NO! I am not talking about medical diagnoses. We know what medicine tells us, but I DO NOT BELIEVE EVERYTHING MEDICINE TELLS US. WHY? Because medicine is a man-made institution, and I have serious questions about the systems men have created. NO, I am not a conspiracy theorist. I am a master at pattern recognition, and this is what I have concluded. Everything we have been taught about society is a big, fat lie. Women were never meant to serve men. Men have always served women. HUMAN men, that is.
What I am about to tell you sounds like something straight out of a great fiction book, but I believe it is the truth. If I disappear, just know that I never wanted to hurt myself, and I love life. Aliens are real. They are here, and they are our worst enemy. They are not what you think they are. As a matter of fact, I believe we have been interacting with them for centuries. Here we go.
Women once lived in peace and serenity. We were doing what women do best: creating life, without men, and leading that life in harmony and peace. Giants are real! I need you to think of giants as bees in a beehive. They protect the queen and tend to the hive alongside the other bees. I believe giants were the original human males, and their purpose was to protect women. Why the hell do you think we have such enormous architecture, both above and below ground? Do you really think today's men built everything we have been told they built? What about the railroads? Where is all the photographic documentation of the labor involved in constructing these massive networks? I believe railroads existed long before the history we have been taught. REAL HUMAN MEN BUILT THEM!
Anyway, back to the original layout of the world. Giants, the real human men and women, lived in harmony. There was no hierarchy because one wasn't needed. That was until Earth was visited by aliens. And before anyone starts twisting my words, this is not a race thing, although race plays an important role in my theory. I believe these aliens were white, while the original inhabitants of Earth were dark. In my interpretation, the differences in human appearance and environmental adaptation are part of a much larger story about our origins. These aliens were not suited to Earth's environment. They desired the women of this planet and forced themselves upon them. That is where I believe everything started. Hybrids were born, giants were eventually eradicated, and the war between today's males and females began.
They had to bury the truth. And what better way to do that than by turning the original story into a fictional book called the Bible? I believe pieces of our history are scattered throughout its pages, rearranged and transformed into religious instructions that have been used to keep women submissive and Black women FAAAAR away from power. Think about how much of recorded history has been interpreted, translated, rewritten, and controlled by men. Think about how many generations of women were told that obedience was their purpose and that questioning male authority was somehow against the natural order. Who decided that? And why have we accepted it for so long?
Men never stopped researching women. That is simply what we are told. Men know damn well how powerful we are. Our anatomy has survived centuries of violence, oppression, reproductive exploitation, and medical experimentation. Yet women have continued creating life, rebuilding families, and sustaining communities under circumstances that should never have existed in the first place. I believe the systems built around male dominance have spent centuries trying to understand, control, and replicate what women's bodies are naturally capable of doing. MEN HAVE ALWAYS KNOWN WE ARE PERFECT AND THEY ARE DYSFUNCTIONAL!
Look at nature and tell me who creates life and protects it. FEMALES! Across countless species, mothers carry, nourish, defend, and raise their offspring. Male behavior varies throughout the animal kingdom, but competition, territorial aggression, and dominance are common enough to raise questions about the way humans have organized their societies. Women were never made to be submissive. We were meant to lead, create, and build. I believe men were meant to protect, and somewhere along the way, protection was replaced with ownership. Instead of standing beside women, men began positioning themselves above them. Instead of protecting the people responsible for bringing the next generation into the world, societies began controlling their bodies, choices, and independence.
In The Chain Creation Theory™, I discuss the importance of protecting women during pregnancy. I have spent years examining how our earliest environments may influence the patterns we carry throughout our lives. A child does not enter this world completely disconnected from the conditions in which they developed. We already know that prolonged maternal stress can influence fetal development and that early childhood adversity can affect emotional regulation, stress responses, and long-term health. We also know that stable relationships, adequate nutrition, physical safety, and emotional support contribute to healthier developmental conditions. So why do we continue building societies that expose pregnant women to financial insecurity, violence, emotional distress, and the constant pressure to survive?
Research into adverse childhood experiences has repeatedly identified associations between early adversity and later physical and psychological health problems. Studies examining prenatal stress have explored its relationship with children's developing stress-response systems, behavior, and emotional well-being. Research on gender inequality has also documented how restrictions on women's autonomy, economic opportunities, education, and reproductive choices affect their health and security. Gender-based violence and coercive control can expose women and children to prolonged distress, sometimes across multiple generations. These are established areas of scientific investigation, and they are central to the questions I raise in The Chain Creation Theory™.
Now imagine what humanity could become if we actually addressed those conditions instead of waiting until people developed symptoms and then trying to manage them. Imagine pregnant women living without the constant threat of violence, abandonment, financial insecurity, or emotional abuse. Imagine children entering environments where safety, stability, affection, and support were ordinary expectations rather than privileges. What would happen to the patterns we currently associate with chronic anxiety, aggression, emotional dysregulation, and intergenerational trauma? I believe we could reduce an enormous amount of human suffering simply by changing the conditions in which human beings develop.
And that brings me back to patriarchy. For centuries, women have been expected to endure systems that place enormous demands on their bodies while limiting their authority over their own lives. Women have been denied education, property ownership, political participation, financial independence, and control over reproduction. Even after many of those restrictions were legally removed, their social and economic consequences continued. We have research documenting the effects of domestic violence, reproductive coercion, economic inequality, and discrimination. We also have generations of women whose experiences demonstrate what happens when one group is given authority over another. How much more evidence do we need before we seriously examine the structure itself?
I know this sounds bizarre, but I come with receipts. I am aware that science has not established every part of my theory about humanity's origins. I am saying that the patterns I have identified have led me to a conclusion that I believe deserves examination. I do not have every piece of the puzzle perfectly figured out, and I have never claimed to know everything. However, I am convinced that our understanding of human history, behavior, and social organization is incomplete.
We cannot eliminate the past, but we can change the future. And NO, I am not suggesting that we replace patriarchy with matriarchy. I am suggesting something entirely different. I call it Equiarchy. A society in which nobody is considered inherently superior because of their sex, race, wealth, religion, or social standing. A society in which leadership is based on capability, responsibility, and the willingness to serve humanity rather than control it. A society in which protecting children, supporting families, and preserving human well-being are shared responsibilities instead of burdens assigned according to gender.
For Equiarchy to become possible, the systems we currently live under would have to be fundamentally restructured. Our governments, economic institutions, educational systems, healthcare structures, and social expectations would all need to be examined. We would have to question practices that have been normalized for centuries and decide whether they actually serve humanity. I know. CRAZY! Imagine suggesting that we stop organizing our lives around power, ownership, competition, and control and start organizing them around human needs, cooperation, and shared responsibility.
I believe we could literally live happily ever after, but I also believe the people who benefit most from the current arrangement have little incentive to change it. Most of you refer to them as the so-called ELITE, although I personally prefer the word parasites. Look at how much division exists in the world. Race against race, religion against religion, men against women, wealthy against poor, country against country. We have become so accustomed to fighting one another that we barely question the institutions and individuals benefiting from those divisions. People spend their entire lives defending systems that often fail to meet their most basic needs.
People such as myself question those arrangements, and I believe that makes our perspectives difficult for established institutions to accommodate. I am one of the most talented people you will ever meet. But you probably won't hear about me or see my posts reaching millions of people. I know what I could accomplish with access to the kind of financial resources and influence enjoyed by the people at the top. I would use those resources to build, educate, restore, and create opportunities for people who have spent their lives being overlooked. And I am certainly not the only person who would.
I know that sounds conceited, but I do not speak with pride. I speak with authority. I know what I have accomplished, what I am capable of, and what I intend to do with the time I have left on this planet. There are millions of people with ideas, talents, knowledge, and abilities that could contribute to a completely different kind of society. We have got to stop waiting for someone else to decide whether we are worthy of being heard. We have got to do what we were born to do. RESTORE. CREATE. LEAD!
If we want peace on Earth, we need to confront the behaviors, institutions, and systems that continue to perpetuate exploitation, violence, and division. We need people who are willing to question what they have been taught, examine the evidence available to them, and consider the possibility that humanity could organize itself differently. I am not calling for violence, but I also DON'T FEAR IT. I know that meaningful change can involve resistance, and I am not interested in pretending otherwise.
If nature and being a mom have taught me one thing, it is that I am fully aware of HOW BAD OF A BITCH I CAN BE.
